My father-in-law is a monster.  No, he’s not a vampire, were-wolf, zombie, mummy kind of monster…but he’s much worse.  He pretends to be kind and loving to the “public” but as soon as we are alone with him he never fails to emotionally attack my husband.  He has flat-out told him that he did not care that he hurt his feelings.  In fact, he informed him that my husband’s feelings do not mater at all to him.  In the mean-time he tells his ‘friends’ that he is just so worried about his son and he does not understand why his son is so distant of late and accuses me of tearing his son away from his family.  He is truly a bully – and  a pathetic one at that.  He disgusts me.  I know there are two-faced people in the world, that does not surprise me.  What surprises me is the number of people he has been able to fool with his “poor little me” sob story.  He is a widower and he plays that up all the time for sympathy extolling his goodness in standing by her side through a prolonged illness when, in truth, he cheated on her for nearly 20 years of their 40+ year marriage.  I am so sick of hypocrites!  I am sick of people who pretend to be family and turn on you as soon as you have an opinion differing from theirs.  Color me DONE!